Have you ever found yourself stuck in a pattern of the same thought/concept going through your mind daily, weekly, monthly or maybe yearly?? Well I wanted to share something that has been on my mind as of late.
Within my generation (generation Y and even generation X for that matter) there seems to be an a lack of stability through out the lives of peers, friends, co-workers and even family within the 20 somethings age bracket. Unfortunately, this instability shows itself through most areas of our lives.There are many facets that are greatly affected, but the following 4 areas are the most common and are on the surface.
- Career: Business' shutting down, budget cuts, downsizing, out sourcing...these are terms that the unemployed folk can relate to. With unemployment setting records every month it doesn't seem to be getting better. I have noticed that the trend for job seekers is using job agencies that filter the jobs for applicants and resumes for employers. If your a job seeker try to find stability in possibly having to work some temporary jobs, even if it's a new job every week. Why? because the last thing you want is to find yourself in a slump and pass up opportunities.
- Finances: Due to the unemployment rate and people losing jobs this has drastically hindered the pocket book. Even with a job money is tight because things are so expensive, and that's exactly it.. "THINGS"....what happened to being frugal and only going with the necessities? Of course we see advertisements everywhere and with the "swipe the card" approach we can find ourselves in too deep. Budgeting is one practical approach to handling your finances and being able to discipline when it comes to "needs" or "wants".
- Relationships: When we feel like we are failing as young adults in the career and financial arena the trickle down is that it also hinders not only our relationship with family, friends, significant other but our spiritual walk as well. If you find yourself becoming unstable or maybe been stuck on pause for a while....take this time to pursue and invest your time wisely into relationships, because that is one thing you can control yourself - how you spend your time and with who you spend it with.
- Beliefs System: There is a swirling black hole that is in a downward spiral that has cause some young adults to question what they believe and even challenges those who "know". A recent study shows that in the YGeneration 48% believe in God, 20% say there is no God and 32% are unsure what to believe. Through media, education and entertainment a person can get caught up in the whirlwind. The sad part is there are many followers and not enough leaders.....more and more young adults associate with a certain organization or cause because a friend or a group of friends do. We tend to put more value on what someone is doing rather than why they are doing it. Don't be a grain of wheat the shifts with the wind, rather be a palm tree that feels the wind but doesn't shift...it stays grounded!
I know this was like a shotgun going off scattering all over.. but hopefully you can take something from what you read and be motivated to act upon and bring stability into back into our lives. Growing up the popular asked question was "what kind of tie is that?" and if you didn't know what the value of that tie was or why the brand was popular people would sit back and say "they don't know the true value of what they have". This hasn't changed much, but now it has moved on to different areas of our lives. As young adults we need to shake ourselves from the mundane and realize our value and potential. Wake Up! and look and what's in your bag!

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